Hope it's what makes us dream, reality is what shatters our hopes, and facts, looking at things with your own eyes, is what reinforces your reality. Live once, experiences, many.
You come from different parts of the world, you understand little, you understand a lot. We come from ways, and parts, and corners in the world with different points of view. Are you worth it? Am I worth it? Yes! we all are. We all have something special within us that makes us who we are, how we act, how we face facts, and how we deal with reality. Everybody is different!
I hope you don't forget the good times, the good moments! The passion, the pillow talk ...
Companionship: We will all, one day find a person that love the way we are, regardless of the situation in which your life is orbiting at the time of the big discover.
The reality is, that if you think you found someone special, hold on to them. Be good, give your all, don't let them go.
Change: It's hard, but who said that fixing the little things of our imperfect life would be easy? that's why we take to imperfect human beings, and make a perfect one. Partnership, commitment, choices.
The fact is, that changes take time, and most of us are impatient.
Building: Starting a new beginning with someone should be based on truth, honesty, communication, respect in the relationship, and understanding. Building thick walls no matter what (so to speak), even if there is something unforgettable.
The reality is, that after a big argument, or disagreement, we look away, and things are over before we start.
DO YOU LOVE ME? She says yes!, the truth? She never meant it... it was all a lie, almost five months, living in a lie, a lie that was only for one purposed and one purposed only!
Facing reality, late at night!
Commitment: Are you ready? I don't think so, if you are, then you would have look at the bigger picture. Some of us are ready, the problem is that one might be committed towards a relationship, the reality is, that the other person isn't.
Choices: Once you choose who you want, fight for it! I know out there we have fighters, trying everything they can to better the situation, even in the worst moments. But, sometimes there is not that much we can do... A relationship, love, and happiness always involve two people. A couple.
The fact is, that the other half (the other person), does not want to make that choice. Immaturity.
The reality is, that you hardly find that one person.
Transparency: You say, he says, she say! We all hide something... Short story; woke up one morning, look at my ex-girlfriend cellphone (the phone was unlock) Oops! moreover, see many text messages, many of which were not appropriate for a male / female friendship, at all. (I met the guy before) I didn't say anything about it at the moment of the occurrence. One day, I ask her (my ex-girlfriend), if there is anything she would want to confess, to tell me, to let out, so we can start fresh? she says, "no, I'm not hiding anything." Ironic.
The fact is, that yes, she was hiding something. The reality is, that maybe the other person was filling up the whole I was unable to feel. Maybe it is right now.
It's reality, you were not good enough. You are facing the facts! Or maybe you are.
Can you separate the good from the bad? Can you choose to love instead of walking away? Are you ready for something real?
If you think you are, look hard within. Look at those things you can make better, about yourself, about the others around you. Become better, become you!
